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AHRC-ETC-002-2011 
January 14, 2011 
An article by Dr. Gaffar Peang-Meth published by the Asian Human Rights Commission 
 As  we enter the fifteenth day of the New Year 2011, I would like begin  this first article of the year for the Asian Human Rights Commission,  with the words of Lord Gautama Buddha (563 B.C.-483 B.C.): "Everything  changes, nothing remains without change".
As  we enter the fifteenth day of the New Year 2011, I would like begin  this first article of the year for the Asian Human Rights Commission,  with the words of Lord Gautama Buddha (563 B.C.-483 B.C.): "Everything  changes, nothing remains without change". Change is a constant. We can  expect change in our lives and in our environment. Some changes will  make us smile while others we wish never happened. But change there will  be. Facing this inevitability, it behooves us to seek how to influence  the change that we would like to see, because "yes, we can." Doing  nothing increases the likelihood that we will not like the change that  affects us. 
"A New Soul" 
We, humans, are creatures of  habit, of reproductive thinking, of self-piloted, fossilized responses;  and yet some wonder why they don't get different results. We are  reminded, "When you do what you've always done, you will get what you've  always got." 
Yet, as many of us like to think  of the New Year as new beginnings, an opportunity for a fresh new  start, so English writer Gilbert K. Chesterton (1874-1936) wrote, with a  new year "we should have a new soul." 
Is a new soul possible if we continue patterned thoughts while the world changes?
"What we think, we become" 
Buddha teaches, "We are what we think"; "What we think, we become"; "The mind is everything." 
If indeed "We are formed and  molded by our thoughts," as Buddha says, then what becomes of  individuals who engage endlessly in negative thoughts of others,  gossiping, and throwing venomous words? What kind of a hostile, angry  world are they making? 
Buddha refers to those  activities as "evil of the tongue," and counsels their avoidance.  Buddhists know it but there's the usual disconnect between rhetoric and  action. 
Buddha teaches: "If a man speaks  or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts  with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never  leaves him." Buddha reminds, what good will all the holy words you read  and speak do, "if you do not act upon them?" 
Contemporary Cambodians'  struggle against oppression, in pursuit of universally recognized  individual rights and freedom, may be explained through Buddha's  precept, "We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think." 
Our thoughts and behaviors are  conditioned by what we learn and by what is expected of us in a society  that promotes class, status, rank, role relationships, backed by a  culture of asymmetric leader-follower, superior-inferior,  master-servant, patron-client practices. Khmer teaching, to "korup,  kaowd, klach, smoh trawng" -- respect, admire, fear, be loyal -- has  been inculcated in the Cambodian persona for centuries. 
In a perfect world, society's  teaching, our cultural heritage can actually improve society. But our  world is imperfect. It's easy to see, if we are objective analysts, how  the culture and the teaching have reinforced the status quo of asymmetry  in Cambodia and have promoted the Leviathan's oppression. 
Thus, followers follow their  particular leader -- rather than a set of rules, high principles, and  good thinking -- even if the leader leads them toward the abyss; and  those recognized as belonging to society's lower social, political,  economic strata are expected to respect, admire, fear, and be loyal to  those personalities in positions above them. 
Creativity, criticality,  innovation threaten the status quo; deviators are nonconformists; those  who deviate from the "party line" are challengers, who eventually are  denounced as traitors. 
Thus, it is easier and safer to conform. 
Thoughts that make the world 
Buddha says, "All that we are, arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." 
Recall Pol Pot. He believed  there was "no gain in keeping, no loss in eliminating" those with  "incorrect thinking" -- "incorrect" because it did not conform to his.  His solution was "tbaung chawb" -- a hoe blade to strike at the neck of  "incorrect" individuals. 
And Buddha teaches, "In a  controversy, the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving  for truth, and we have begun striving for ourselves." Buddha tells us,  "I do not believe in a fate that falls on men however they act; but I  believe in a fate that falls on them unless they act." 
In other words, one's fate follows one's inaction. 
It's not unusual to hear from  time to time some individuals assert, not unreasonably, that one person  cannot bring about change; millions are needed. I question if such  assertion is meant to excuse them for their inaction. 
A Khmer saying goes: "Samboeurm tae peark, trokieark slab s'dok," or "Awesome are the words, (but) the hip joints lie dead". 
"Work of a Single Man" 
Recall Robert F. Kennedy,  mortally shot by Sirhan Sirhan at The Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles in  June 1968. He made famous a quotation of Irish playwright George  Bernard Shaw's: "Some men see things as they are and say, 'Why'? I dream  of things that never were and say, 'Why not'?" 
Kennedy declared in a speech:  "Some believe there is nothing one man or one woman can do against the  enormous array of the world's ills. Yet many of the world's great  movements, of thought and action, have flowed from the work of a single  man. A young monk began the Protestant reformation, a young general  extended an empire from Macedonia to the borders of the earth, and a  young woman reclaimed the territory of France. It was a young Italian  explorer who discovered the New World, and the thirty-two-year-old  Thomas Jefferson who proclaimed that all men are created equal." 
The young monk was German  professor of theology Martin Luther (1483-1546). At age 34, Luther who  led the Protestant Revolt, argued that people could have a direct  relationship with God. He nailed his famous 95 theses to the door of a  Catholic church in Wittenberg; he translated the Bible from Latin so  that non-Latin-speaking people the world over can read the words of God.  The Revolt unleashed the Thirty Years War between the Protestant and  Catholic leagues. 
The young general was Ghengis  Khan (1162-1227), who started to unite nomadic tribes at a young age,  and when he was 44, founded the Mongol Empire, that spread and covered  22 percent of the Earth's total land area, stretching from Central Asia  to Eastern Europe, Southeast Asia, the Indian subcontinent and the  Middle East. 
The young woman was Jeanne d'Arc  -- Joan of Arc (1412-1431) -- a French peasant girl who claimed divine  guidance for her to liberate her homeland from English domination late  in the Hundred Years War. While veteran commanders were dismissive of  her, she rallied France's flagging troops against the English and lifted  the Orleans siege in only 9 days in 1429, when she was only 17, and had  Charles VII crowned King of France. She was later captured, put on  trial by an ecclesiastical court, found guilty, and was burned at the  stake for heresy in Rouen, France, in 1431, at age 19. 
And we have read about the young  Italian explorer, Christopher Columbus, who claimed he said he had  first gone to sea when he was 10, who docked in England when he was 25,  landed at the Americas when he was 41. We also studied the influential  American forefather Thomas Jefferson, principal author of the United  States Declaration of Independence, at age 32, and promoter of the  ideals of republicanism in the U.S. 
Of course, it took many people  to help Luther in the Protestant Reformation; many to help Ghengis Khan  build and spread the Mongol Empire; many to fight alongside Joan of Arc.  Columbus didn't sail alone; nor did Jefferson work on the Declaration,  alone. 
As Kennedy said, "many of the world's great movements, of thought and action, have flowed from the work of a single man." 
New Year, New Thoughts? 
The often-quoted words of  India's pre-eminent Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948) say, "You must be the  change you wish to see in the world." 
He also says, "As human beings,  our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world . . .  as in being able to remake ourselves." 
For years, I have devoted my  columns to discussing how we can "remake ourselves" before we can remake  anything else. This holiday season, as I wandered through a store, I  stumbled on a piece of wood carved with a Chinese saying: If you want  product in a year, grow grain; in 10 years, grow trees; in 100 years,  grow people. 
If Cambodians want to maintain  their nation's survival, they should be busy with growing people –  starting with growing themselves. Learning and unlearning does not yield  instant results, and I have no illusion that I will see this change in  my lifetime, but my children's children will. The time to learn and  unlearn should have started years ago. Still, it's better late than  never. This New Year is a good time start. And we should begin with  Confucius' (551 B.C.-479 B.C.) teaching: "Do not do to others that which  we do not want them to do to us." 
A "yes can do" attitude makes  our tasks easier. It uplifts our spirit, assures that we are less likely  to fail. A "no can do" attitude makes a simple task difficult, like a  dark cloud hovering over us, and assures us we will not succeed. 
There's a true story worth  retelling. It's about Andrew Carnegie (1835-1919), who migrated to  America with his parents from Scotland in 1848 and resettled in  Pennsylvania's Allegheny region. At age 13, he began his life's first  job as a bobbin boy, changing spools of thread 12 hours a day, six days a  week, in a local cotton factory. He earned .20 per week. 
Five years later, at 18, young  Andrew took a job at the Pennsylvania Railroad. He learned about the  railroad industry and about business in general. 
When he was in his late 30s,  Carnegie founded the Carnegie Steel Company. The company grew and became  the world's largest steel manufacturer in the 1890s -- when he was 55.  Carnegie, the refugee boy, became a businessman, an industrialist, and  later, the world's richest man, a classic rags to riches story. 
Between the ages 66 and 84, when  he died, Carnegie donated most of his money to build libraries,  schools, universities in the United States, England, and other  countries. He famously said something that inspired me: "You cannot push  anyone up a ladder unless he is willing to climb it himself." 
You Choose 
Like the saying, "You can lead a  horse to water, but you can't make him drink," you can choose to  maintain your habitual reproductive thinking and reproductive behavior  with predictable results, or you can choose productive, critical (which  probes to understand, compares to determine options, and selects which  is the best) and creative (which generates something new from nothing)  thinking and behavior, to reach your vision of the future you want. 
Not unlike people in other  cultures who have their own myths, Cambodians have theirs. Some wish for  the mythical Preah Bat Thoam-moek to emerge to lead them to a better  future, and to protect and provide them with safety. 
Yet, there are many leaders all  around us, in families, at work places, in schools, in non-governmental  institutions and groups. As I have written before, there are Cambodian  theorists, catalysts, improvisers, and stabilizers, of Linda V. Berens's  model; Cambodian peacemakers, organizers, revolutionaries, and  steamrollers, of Katharine Giacalone's model; and you can read "Primal  Leadership" (2002) and identify Cambodian visionaries, coaches,  affiliates, democrats, pacesetters, and commanders, of Daniel Goleman,  Richard Boyatzis and Annie McKee's model; amongst others. 
There doesn't seem to be a  shortage of leaders -- we learned we don't have to have a charismatic  leader like Mahatma Gandhi or Martin Luther King, Jr., to fight  oppression. 
But there is this huge lack of  willingness to humble ourselves to reach out to Cambodians for a common  goal of liberation, conforming to the Khmers' "A vieach york mok thveu  kang; A trang york mok thveu kamm; A sam ro-nham york mok thveu oss dot"  -- "Curved wood makes wheel; straight wood makes spoke; twisted-crooked  wood makes firewood." 
And there is a shortage of  understanding that productive and creative thoughts will have a positive  impact on our collective future. 
To end this article, a Buddhist proverb is in order: "When the student is ready, the master appears." 
Happy New Year 2011! 
 






 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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